Twelve years ago this journey began. Our twin boys were six and I initially just wrote about the cute stuff they did. In fact, the name of this blog came to be because one day I heard them chanting “ihopeiwinatoaster; ihopeiwinatoaster” over and over in the basement. Time passed, I tried to go a little deeper, say important things. However, those cute boys are at university now and their stories are their own. So, what’s an old blogger to do? Well, I guess that’s what I am trying to find out.
Friday, January 18, 2013
Son Showers
We tried to watch a movie today, Enchanted. It's pretty benign - not to Nick.
He drew this during the movie to distract himself:
I'm not glad that movies scare him, but I am glad that his heart races when the bad guy, or gal, enters the scene. I am sorry that we can't watch anything too freaky but I am not sorry that he always wants to be comforted and assured that all will work out in the end.
When he was little we were watching something, I don't recall what, and he went running out of the room screaming "I only like the endings, I only like endings!" Meaning, of course, that happy place where everything is as it should be. I still feel that way, I just know that's not always the case.
And I am glad I got this. We used to call them 'sunshowers' and I still do. I'm not sure that's a technical meteorological term but, it works for me. I guess I know that the sun is still shining above even the darkest of storms, the grayest of days, the gloomiest of clouds. I just forget that.
Thanks, Nick.
From Marci's "...things you don't expect hear from the backseat..."
Z: "Nick, you farted."
N: "No. I did not feel any gas come out of my butt."
Of course this happened at the dinner table and, as god is my witness, I tried not to laugh, I tried not to make eye contact with Marci, but (butt?) I failed...
My son still has nightmares about Jurassic park. My ex-husband was famous for letting them watch movies (at 3 or 4) then falling asleep without shutting the TV off... hello late night television.
ReplyDeleteThere was a lot of explaining to do when they came home. We called it "deprogramming".